Category Archives: P and A

a hypothetical about ethics and parental responsiblity – Updated

The story I am about to relay is purely hypothetical.

When I am done, I will ask two questions.


A child with emotional and mental health illness is in a 2nd grade classroom.  The parents do everything that they can to ensure that IDEA is followed and their child gets the education that they are legally entitled to receive.

Now let us add a variable.

the parent of that child is a special education teacher.   We will call this parent, Teacher 1.

the parent of another child in the same classroom is a special education teacher.  We will call this parent, Teacher 2.


Now, teacher 1 takes a position at a neighboring school district.

A year later teacher 2 also takes a position in the same neighboring district as teacher 1.


Over the course of the next few years, teacher 1 is made to feel less than adequate, unprofessional and generally poorly treated by teacher 2.  Teacher 2 seems bent on running teacher 1 out of the school district.


Teacher 1 is placed on an improvement plan.  No in classroom observations are done.  Teacher 1 is told to do things a certain way, then chastised for doing so, with the idea that she wasn’t doing what she was told to do.

In the last few months of a school year, teacher 1 learns that teacher 2 believes that the child with severe emotional and mental health conditions should have been institutionalized years ago, because… that child disrupted the learning environment for the child of teacher 2.

Never mind that the child of teacher 1 spent a significant portion of their day in the special education area of the school.

Teacher 2 has indicated their beliefs to other staff in the school, but never to Teacher 1.


Question 1.

Should Teacher 1 be punished for the beliefs of Teacher 2?

Question 2.

Should Teacher 2 continue as a special education teacher if in fact they believe that special education students are disruptive to the education process for other students?



The child in question is currently in a residential facility.


Update June 2014.
Teacher 2 has left the district.   I wish that teacher the best of luck with new employment.
My new goal in life is to require teacher employment records to follow the teacher.


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Dad, I killed the car!

Another day done. For the most part, I would call this day a success. My girls, who have both been licensed to drive for less than 6 months killed the car tonight. They thought that they were in trouble, because it wouldn’t start… They walked home, then we went and got it after mom got… Continue Reading

Day 9 ~ more fun than you can shake a taco at.

So I had to stop at our high school to sign some papers for one of my kids special education teachers, and the Superintendent happened to hear my voice. He came out, asked me if I had a few minutes so he could give me the paperwork for home schooling. Now, if you are following… Continue Reading

Day 8 ~ Facilitated what? and new friends !Success!

Since coming online with the new blog and website on January 3rd, I have made an incredible number of new friends.  Some really fantastic people are connecting with me.  How lucky am I? ==== Back to the topic for the night.  Have you ever experienced a Facilitated IEP? According to the website, a facilitated… Continue Reading

don’t feel stupid yet? they think we are…

When my wife came home from work and checked her personal email, she discovered a copy of the prior written notice had been emailed to her.  And evidently it had been emailed to me as well.  To an account that I never use to communicate with the district.  Very frustrating. As to the content of… Continue Reading

>End of a Good Week

>M had a good week over all.  I told the speech therapist not to engage M in any power struggles.  Talked with Protection and Advocacy (P and A) on Friday.  Signed a bunch of releases so that they can look at his school, psych, and probation records.  Faxed copies of the Sheriff report to their… Continue Reading